tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-678893393374053511.post3485671120647661053..comments2023-10-18T07:34:00.537-07:00Comments on Going the Distance: Frustration CentralTri Mommyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11347214091388473467noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-678893393374053511.post-38560552693410522112010-04-07T10:45:29.566-07:002010-04-07T10:45:29.566-07:00I get irk'd when I am told I am being selfish ...I get irk'd when I am told I am being selfish by training. What people dont understand is that training and racing makes me happy, and if I am happy, then the others in my life will receive my happiness. We do what we do because we enjoy it. Is it a weekend warrior hobby, no. But personally I think our dedication to the sport helps makes us a better person all around. THats my two cents.Big Daddy Dieselhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07868041775049514011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-678893393374053511.post-24094084287187400822010-04-07T08:31:40.705-07:002010-04-07T08:31:40.705-07:00There will always be something or someone to rain ...There will always be something or someone to rain on your parade and help put some of that mommy guilt back into the equation. I think we give ourselves enough mommy guilt, we don't need other people to infuse it into our mind. Ignore it because no one else is living your life close enough to truly know what is right for your family. As long as you and Mr. Darcy have it worked out and the girls are happy, that is what matters most. Whatever you are doing, be present in that moment. If you are spending time with your girls and Mr. Darcy, be completely present with them. If you're training, be present in your training and make every minute count. You get the picture. In the end, your girls won't remember as much about the quantity of time you spent with them, but the quality of that time. You are a strong and capable woman and you want to pass that on to your girls by living the example. In the end, be happy with your life and make no apologies for enjoying time for you!NJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17393973695792238585noreply@blogger.com